| What can I expect from a session ? |
All sessions are
tailored to the individual.
I expect clients to be honest in their
requirements. Your session will be whatever you want it to be like within
reason.
I will not accept a session where I do not believe I
can fulfill the clients
wishes. |
| I am married or worried about
disclosure... |
Don't worry - what
goes in in my sessions is completely confidential. As are any details you may
disclose.
I do expect the same
confidentiality from you. |
| What are your chambers like ? |
See my pics for a
view of my chambers in the pics section.
I am
well equipped with a wide range of tools, restraints and implements including
electrics. |
| I don't like pain..... |
Pain is only one element of BDSM. The primary element is control. Not
all people enjoy the more painful elements and Mistress will not do things to
you that you have specifically asked her not to. You should be honest in your
requirements and any limits will be respected during your session. |
| I don't want to be marked....is that a problem
? |
No - if you tell Mistress that you at the
start I will not mark you. You should be realistic
here in your requirements. There's no point asking to be caned hard and then
saying you don't want marks. Some instruments will mark even when used lightly.
I do have a range of instruments that will hurt without leaving visible
marks. |
I have
never seen a mistress before -
I'm
worried that I
wont be up to it. |
Mistress is always pleased to see novices
and will help you with ideas for your session as well as slowly
introduce you to various elements to see what you like.
Don't worry about being nervous Mistress deals with a lot of novices to BDSM
and you wil find me Mistress approachable and willing to discuss things with
you. |
I have
a medical condition -
will that make a difference ? |
Not necessarily but again you should be honest as otherwise you put
yourself at risk. Any special medication you require should be bought with you.
Any conditions such as heart problems, back problems, epilipsy etc should be
bought to Mistresses attention at the start of a session. |
| What sort of limits and safeguards are there
? |
Mistress will respect any limits you
choose to impose you will also be given a 'safeword' to use. If at any point in
a session you want Mistress to stop you have only to use the safeword.
If you are gagged you will be given an object
to hold - again if you release the object Mistress will stop.
Mistress is VERY experienced and you will be unlikely to need
your safeword but its there as a precaution. |
| If I use my safeword is that the end of my session
? |
No - Mistress will back off and find
something else to do that you will enjoy. You are unlikely to use the safeword
as Mistress is VERY experienced. Its there as a safety precaution
only. |
I have a fantasy that I would love to
act out but
am worried you will laugh or
be disgusted.... |
Mistress deals with a wide range of
people all of whom have their own fantasies. Its very unlikely that you would
be able to shock me and of course I wont laugh or be disgusted- treat me as you
would a doctor. Everything is strictly confidential and I will be genuinely
interested in your fantasies.
There are some
things I will not do and I expect you to respect MY limits as I respect
yours. |
| Will I be safe ? |
Of course you will. I operate in a
completely safe manner and you will not be put at risk. All my equipment is
sterilised between clients and the dungeon chambers disinfected. The chambers
are clean and warm at all times.
All of my
equipment is professionally made to ensure it is safe and as risk free as
possible. |
| What happens if I don't like what's happening
? |
Use your safeword - that's what its there
for !
The safeword can be used when things may
not be painful but you just don't like what's happening. |
| How should I treat the mistress ? |
With respect and
honesty. You do not need to arrive at Mistresses door on your knees. On a first
meeting you should address Mistress in the way you would any professional
person ie in a polite manner.
During a
session you address me as Mistress unless otherwise
instructed. |
| How should I dress? |
Mistress expects you to be clean and
tidy, casual clothes are
fine but not oil stained jeans etc. If you are a TV then Mistress doesnt expect
you to arrive looking like Lily Savage or a Panto Dame.
You should be washed, brushed and generally
clean. |
I have
heard stories about people being
beaten up and robbed
? |
Yes - Mistress has heard them too - most
are complete nonsense that have passed into folklore and most are only true
about massage parlours etc.
You will be
perfectly safe on Mistresses premises.
There is
a maid and other security on the premises at all times for my safety BUT you
will never see them and they will not intrude on a session. |
Will I get a chance to explain to mistress
what I
want in a session ? |
Absolutely. Before the session starts I
always have a 15 minute interview to discuss your requirements and to ask
questions about health etc. You may ask me anything as well in that time that
you may want to know. Its a good idea if you are particularly nervous to make
some notes to bring with you or mail me in advance.
This interview time is in addition to your session time and you
are not charged for it. I have heard some mistresses charge this as a 'hidden'
extra. I absolutely DO NOT do this. If you book an hour session you get a full
hour session. Pre- and post session time is not charged. |
| What happens at the end of a session
? |
At the end of the session you will be
invited to have a cup of tea or coffee with the Mistress and you may discuss
the session and future sessions you may require or anything else that you want.
This is a cooling off period before you leave to give you some time to adjust
back into the 'normal' world.
Obviously you should continue to show politeness and respect to
Mistress but you need not call me Mistress unless you want
to. |
| Do I get to have sex with the mistress
? |
Absolutely NOT under ANY circumstances. I am a professional
dominatrix not a prostitute. |
| So what am I paying for ? |
My time, my experience and my equipment. |
| How do
I pay ? I am embarrassed about giving mistress money.... |
Mistress will ask you for her 'tribute'
at the start of the session. I don't expect to see you fumbling to make up the
tribute from loose change. You will be offered a box to place the tribute in. |
| I work during the day can I book to see you in the
evening or at a weekend ? |
Mistress will not see first time clients except during weekdays.
Clients who have shown up and are deemed reliable may book sessions during the
evening or weekends. |
| How long is a session ? |
As long as you require it to be. I will not see new clients for
longer than 1 hour (the minimum). |
| How do I book a session ? |
Read my rules and contact me using the contact details on the
site. |
| How much time in advance do I allow to make a
booking |
Due to a very high level of timewasters
Mistress will not accept same day appointments. Generally you need to allow 2-3
days if you want a specific time. You will be asked to phone to confirm your
appointment the day before.
No phone
confirmation means your appointment will be cancelled. |
| What happens if I book but then don't show up
? |
If you call to say you cant make a session you will be offered the
chance to book again. People who don't show up without letting Mistress know
will not be accepted for further bookings. Persistent timewasters and people
who are deemed a risk to other Mistresses will be logged on a professional
dominatrix black list. |
| Will you accept female subs and slaves
? |
Yes - Mistress can offer female subs a range of BDSM session
activities. Please contact me for more details. |
| I have a disability - Does this mean I cant session
with Mistress ? |
Mistress is happy to session, with
anyone who has any form of disability.
However, you must make Mistress
aware, of your condition, for your own well being.
Mistress has wheel chair access and
ramps available, at one of her chambers, and is happy to discuss any further
requirements you may have, to help with the smooth running of your session.
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