| What can I expect from a session ? |
All sessions are tailored to the individual.
I expect
clients to be honest in their requirements. Your session will be whatever you
want it to be like within reason.
I will not
accept a session where I do not believe I can
fulfill the clients wishes. |
| I am married or worried about
disclosure... |
Don't worry - what goes in in my sessions is completely
confidential. As are any details you may disclose.
I do expect the same confidentiality from
you. |
| What are your chambers like ? |
See my pics for a view of my chambers in the pics section.
I
am well equipped with a wide range of tools, restraints and implements including
electrics. |
| I don't like pain..... |
Pain is only one element of BDSM. The primary element is control. Not
all people enjoy the more painful elements and Mistress will not do things to
you that you have specifically asked her not to. You should be honest in your
requirements and any limits will be respected during your session. |
| I don't want to be marked....is that a problem
? |
No - if you tell Mistress that you at the start I
will not mark you. You should be realistic here in
your requirements. There's no point asking to be caned hard and then saying you
don't want marks. Some instruments will mark even when used lightly. I do have
a range of instruments that will hurt without leaving visible
marks. |
I have never seen a mistress before -
I'm worried that I wont be up to it. |
Mistress is always pleased to see novices and will help you
with ideas for your session as well as slowly introduce you to various elements to see what you like. Don't
worry about being nervous Mistress deals with a lot of novices to BDSM and you
wil find me Mistress approachable and willing to discuss things with
you. |
I have a medical condition -
will that make a difference
? |
Not necessarily but again you should be honest as otherwise you put
yourself at risk. Any special medication you require should be bought with you.
Any conditions such as heart problems, back problems, epilipsy etc should be
bought to Mistresses attention at the start of a session. |
| What sort of limits and safeguards are there
? |
Mistress will respect any limits you choose to impose you will
also be given a 'safeword' to use. If at any point in a session you want
Mistress to stop you have only to use the safeword.
If you are gagged you will be given an object to hold - again
if you release the object Mistress will stop.
Mistress is VERY experienced and you will be unlikely to need
your safeword but its there as a precaution. |
| If I use my safeword is that the end of my session
? |
No - Mistress will back off and find something else to do that
you will enjoy. You are unlikely to use the safeword as Mistress is VERY
experienced. Its there as a safety precaution only. |
I have a fantasy that I would love to
act out but
am worried you will laugh or
be disgusted.... |
Mistress deals with a wide range of people all of whom have
their own fantasies. Its very unlikely that you would be able to shock me and
of course I wont laugh or be disgusted- treat me as you would a doctor.
Everything is strictly confidential and I will be genuinely interested in your
fantasies.
There are some things I will not do
and I expect you to respect MY limits as I respect yours.nd |
| Will I be safe ? |
Of course you will. I operate in a completely safe manner and
you will not be put at risk. All my equipment is sterilised between clients and
the dungeon chambers disinfected. The chambers are clean and warm at all
times.
All of my equipment is professionally
made to ensure it is safe and as risk free as possible. |
| What happens if I don't like what's happening
? |
Use your safeword - that's what its there for !
The safeword can be used when things may not be painful but you
just don't like what's happening. |
| How should I treat the mistress ? |
With respect and honesty. You do not need to arrive at
Mistresses door on your knees. On a first meeting you should address Mistress
in the way you would any professional person ie in a polite
manner.
During a session you address me as
Mistress unless otherwise instructed. |
| How should I dress? |
Mistress expects you to be clean and tidy, casual clothes are fine but not oil stained jeans etc. If you are a
TV then Mistress doesnt expect you to arrive looking like Lily Savage or a
Panto Dame.
You should be washed, brushed and
generally clean. |
I have heard stories about people
being
beaten up and robbed
? |
Yes - Mistress has heard them too - most are complete nonsense
that have passed into folklore and most are only true about massage parlours
etc.
You will be perfectly safe on Mistresses
premises.
There is a maid and other security on
the premises at all times for my safety BUT you will never see them and they
will not intrude on a session. |
Will I get a chance to explain to mistress
what I
want in a session ? |
Absolutely. Before the session starts I always have a 15 minute
interview to discuss your requirements and to ask questions about health etc.
You may ask me anything as well in that time that you may want to know. Its a
good idea if you are particularly nervous to make some notes to bring with you
or mail me in advance.
This interview time is
in addition to your session time and you are not charged for it. I have heard
some mistresses charge this as a 'hidden' extra. I absolutely DO NOT do this.
If you book an hour session you get a full hour session. Pre- and post session
time is not charged. |
| What happens at the end of a session
? |
At the end of the session you will be invited to have a cup of
tea or coffee with the Mistress and you may discuss the session and future
sessions you may require or anything else that you want. This is a cooling off
period before you leave to give you some time to adjust back into the 'normal'
world.
Obviously you should continue to show
politeness and respect to Mistress but you need not call me Mistress unless you
want to. |
| Do I get to have sex with the mistress
? |
Absolutely NOT under ANY circumstances. I am a professional
dominatrix not a prostitute. |
| So what am I paying for ? |
My time, my experience and my equipment. |
How do I pay ? I am embarrassed
about
giving mistress
money.... |
Mistress will ask you for her 'tribute' at the start of the
session. I don't expect to see you fumbling to make up the tribute from loose
change. You will be offered a box to place the
tribute in. |
| I work during the day can I book to see you in the
evening or at a weekend ? |
Mistress will not see first time clients except during weekdays.
Clients who have shown up and are deemed reliable may book sessions during the
evening or weekends. |
| How long is a session ? |
As long as you require it to be. I will not see new clients for
longer than 1 hour (the minimum). |
| How do I book a session ? |
Read my rules and contact me using the contact details on the
site. |
| How much time in advance do I allow to make a
booking |
Due to a very high level of timewasters Mistress will not
accept same day appointments. Generally you need to allow 2-3 days if you want
a specific time. You will be asked to phone to confirm your appointment the day
before.
No phone confirmation means your
appointment will be cancelled. |
| What happens if I book but then don't show up
? |
If you call to say you cant make a session you will be offered the
chance to book again. People who don't show up without letting Mistress know
will not be accepted for further bookings. Persistent timewasters and people
who are deemed a risk to other Mistresses will be logged on a professional
dominatrix black list. |
| Will you accept female subs and slaves
? |
Yes - Mistress can offer female subs a range of BDSM session
activities. Please contact me for more details. |
| I have a disability - Does this mean I cant session
with Mistress ? |
Mistress is happy to session, with anyone who has any form of
disability.
However,
you must make Mistress aware, of your condition, for your own well being.
Mistress has wheel
chair access and ramps available, at one of her chambers, and is happy to
discuss any further requirements you may have, to help with the smooth running
of your session. |
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